Monday, February 23, 2026

THAILAND SINGAPORE DAY 3 – Ohmmmmm And The Sleeping Monks

The alarm goes off very, very early.  We’re heading up the mountain to chant with the monks during sunrise, but that involves waking up way before sunrise.  The 5am meeting point is a 15 minute walk, and the hotel has a bagged lunch, complete with piping hot coffee, waiting for us as we breeze by the front desk. 

We always find the hardest part of walking directions on your phone is the first few minutes, when you and GPS are not quite synched up yet.  This morning we are far from synched and get 6 blocks in the wrong direction before correcting course.  Now stressed, we pick up the pace, but we’re not going to make it.  Out of nowhere, an elderly man in a beat up 60-year-old tuk tuk is stopped in front of us.  Seeing our anxiety, he offers to drive us… in a minute.  We look at the back seat and there are paper plates of fish heads.  As the man gets out of the bike, he greets an approaching street cat who has been awaiting his breakfast.  We get in and are not sure what to make of the battered trike and weathered driver, but hey, we’re moving now.  For about a block and a half.  Our driver stops again and two more cats approach.  The man explains that these are the mother and brother of the first cat, and that he has been looking out for them every day for about two years now.  This simple act of caring in a dark, dirty alley puts things into perspective for us, especially considering that we dedicated our morning to witnessing man’s attempt at enlightenment.  The tuk tuk stalls out pretty much every time we stop at a light, but miraculously restarts every time, too.  Somehow, this whole 10 minute micro-experience calms us, grounds us, and we leave our new friend with much gratitude.

We climb into the van with a few others, make two additional stops to fill out our tour group, and within minutes, we’re on the twisty roads up the mountain.  Our guide for today was a monk for 11 years, so he’s uniquely qualified to explain not only the facts about Buddhism and the temples, but about the practical experience of the life.  About halfway to the first temple, we pull into an overlook to see the lights of the city stretched out before us.  For a former monk, he’s not a bad photographer.


It’s the roads and the hour that makes us wooshy over the last 20 minutes of the ride, not the driver, and we’re thankful when we finally arrive at our destination.  Wat Prathat Doi Suthep (wat = temple, doi = mountain, Suthep = the name of the mountain) is the most important of the 1500 temples in Chiang Mai as an actual relic bone of the Buddha is enshrined inside the massive gold leaf pagoda.  The 309 steps to the entrance are flanked by a pair of the longest Nagas – ornate, dragon shaped railings used to express protection and wisdom – in the north.  The 13 of us all make the climb with various levels of huffing and puffing.  At the top, we’re greeted by a pair of Yakshas guarding the entrance. 



Our guide takes care of the tickets and gives us a bit of history of the site and understanding of the monk’s daily lives.  In short, being a monk is the quest for enlightenment.  Enlightenment, in its truest Buddhist form, is achieving a state of perfect wisdom, profound insight into the true nature of reality, and the total cessation of suffering and ignorance.  It’s a beautiful concept of finding peace and overcoming human shortcomings like greed and anger while fostering boundless compassion for all beings.  It’s extremely rare to fully achieve, and the last person who did died in 483 BC.  The half a million monks in Thailand receive the loving support of the people in hopes that one of them will be the next living Buddha.

We climb the final short staircase and get our first look at the temple.  It’s stunning.


We follow the sounds to the assembly hall where the monks are performing their morning chants.  It’s a form of mediation and praise, rhythmic and ritualistic.  We sit in the “respectful” pose, cross-legged right over left, hands on knees, palms up, close our eyes and engage in “simple meditation”, trying your best to clear your mind and focus only on the terminus of your breathing.  It’s a moving and powerful experience even for the most skeptical of people. 


In the courtyard, our guide explains that Buddhists follow the Five Precepts – no killing, no stealing, no sexual misconduct, no lying, no intoxication – like Christians follow the ten commandments.  Buddhist monks however, are held to a much higher standard and are given 227 Precepts to guide their daily life and actions.  He also explains some of the symbolism of the statues and figures.  His talk ends with him giving each of us a lotus flower and two small candles, instructs us how to hold them properly, then sends us to walk clockwise around the golden pagoda three times. 



At the end of our third lap, we place the flower on the offering table, light both candles, place them on the rack and silently ask for what we need most in the moment.  Mandy is moved to tears.

The pre-sunrise light is changing the color of the sky, which changes the color of the pagoda.  Our timing here is not a coincidence. 


Next, the senior most monk sits to give each of us a personal blessing and the gift of a Sai Sin, a small red string bracelet for protection, good luck, and a reminder of mindfulness and compassion.  Evan as a natural critic of religion, I feel the power in the moment.

It’s the start of the burning season in the north of Thailand and neighboring Laos and Myanmar, the practice of burning the farm fields in preparation for the next planting.  It’s incredibly polluting, but continues on despite being illegal and carrying harsh fines and prison sentences due to the cost of the alternatives.  We expect this morning’s sunrise to be hindered by the smoke and haze, which it is, but instead get this crazy red shape trying to break through.  It’s another gift we’re given this morning.



Walking back to towards the entrance, we see the toll the rigorous schedule and early hours take on the younger monks. 

Last thing before we leave is to offer alms to the monks in a ritual known as Tak Bat.  All the monks line up in order of seniority, then walk by the crowd with pots as the onlookers put in donations of food.  I can’t help but comparing the experience to trick-or-treat.  Because monks do not cook or prepare their own food, they rely on these daily offerings for sustenance.  Prior to the rise in tourism, this had traditionally occurred as the monks walked through the nearest village at sunrise, because monks are not allowed to eat after 11am.  The act of giving food to the monks is believed to bring good karma to the giver.

It’s a LOT to have happen before 7:30am.  As we walk down the 309 steps, we notice the illusion of the dragon’s tail. Going up, the tail is green, coming down it’s yellow.  At the bottom we sit at an open air restaurant for a traditional breakfast, allowing us time to process and commune with our fellow travelers.



Back in the van we head down the mountain to our next stop, Wat Pha Lat, the Hidden Temple.  Set in the forest and less visited than Wat Prathat Doi Suthep, it offers serenity and tranquility.




Our last stop of the morning is Wat Umong, the Tunnel Temple, with it’s unique underground architecture and large, ancient Cheddi.




Back in the van, we engage in friendly chit chat with the other travelers and choose to get dropped of in the Old City.  We explore a bit, but keep coming to the same conclusion… we need a massage.  After an nice 60 minute session, it’s time for lunch.  When you think Michelin Star restaurants, you probably think of formal, stodgy dining palaces with complex, multi-course pre fixe menus, and that is the case most places in the world.  Here however, Michelin recognizes the best of the food scene without the expensive trappings.  Most of the designees here in Chiang Mai are street food stands and tiny resturants that you would walk by without a second thought.  We pass one of these award winners, Pari, and can’t pass up the opportunity.  It consists of a 12 seat dining room, and an additional 5 seats at a very narrow counter facing the tight open kitchen.  Overall, it’s smaller then a two car garage.  There are a total of three lunch items on the menu, and we pick the Mountain Fried Rice and Beef Curry Bowl, served “full set” with miso soup, fresh salad and the most photogenic fried egg on the planet.  The meal is simplicity perfected.  Fine ingredients meet skill and technique. 




We find another crazy tuk tuk driver who narrowly avoids group death and dismemberment a dozen times on our way back to the hotel.  We’re laughing the entire time.

The Saturday Night Market is in Old City and is considered the big weekly market.  We get there and the crowds in the in the narrow cattle shoots of rows and the traffic aggressively running through the middle of it are an immediate turn off for us.  Maybe we’re just near a busy entrance point, but we see no let-up in site, so we ditch the market for some quieter Old City streets.  As we walk by Chala, the restaurant with the same name as the hotel which surrounds it, we hear strains of Jack Johnson played by a local musician wafting through the air.  This is where we’re supposed to be tonight.



Saturday, February 21, 2026

THAILAND SINGAPORE DAY 2 – Connecting Through Food


Nolan, a restaurateur friend of ours highly recommended a daytime food tour here in Chiang Mai.  By "highly recommend", I mean five superlatives and six F-bombs over the course of 4 texts. We cannot possibly resist such a suggestion.  So instead of indulging in the beautiful breakfast at the hotel, it’s just some coffee and a few nibbles.  By 9:15 we’re in a tuktuk and on our way to the meeting point, the Wat Lok Moli temple.  The Wat has a fantastic entryway, a couple life-size elephant statues and a beautiful Naga.  We spend a few minutes taking it in while we wait for our guide.  We meet Moui, our guide near the gold, four headed Buddha, because, well, Thailand. 








We find out right away that it’s just us on the tour, it being a quiet week just after Chinese New Year.  We climb into the back of the songthaew, the ubiquitous red open air taxis pickups that operate like New Jersey’s jitney busses.  Moui has hired this one for the day, and we’re off.  I could blather on for paragraph after paragraph about each stop, but that’d be a yawn and I’d run out of my own superlatives.  Instead, I’ll hit on some of the highlights, USA Today style:

  • Khow Soi Lamduan Faharm (Traditional Northern Thai): Our first stop named after Khao Soi (cow-SOY), the region’s signature Northern Thai curry noodle soup.  We’re also served a big bowl of nam ngeow (nam-NEOW, where the NEOW is kinda like meow).  We’re assured by Moui that these are the best examples of the dishes in the city, and, judging by the fact that we’re the only tourists in the place, we’re inclined to agree.

That would be enough food for the two of us for an entire meal.
  Only 5 stops and 20 more dishes to go. 

  • Lap Pa Tan Di Khom (Traditional Northern Thai): Water buffalo laab, fermented pork jin som steamed in a banana leaf, Northern Thai braised pork curry.  Surprising flavors an textures, unbelievable spice combinations.  Again, we’re the only westerners here.  Lean in Dorthy, we’re not in Kansas any more.  And learn the right way to eat sticky rice (hint: it’s like how Italians use bread).




Being such an intimate little group, our conversation wanders easily from the evolution of the food culture through ancient trade and exploration to eating etiquette.
  The feel is more coming-into-town-to-visit-a-friend than tourist experience.

  • Neng’s Clay Oven Roasted Pork (Local Fave Today):  Great big Chinese clay pots, traditionally used to hold water, we long ago repurposed as high temp charcoal fired roasting ovens.  They make chicken and pork belly… best crispy skin in the game.  I’d fly here from Philly just for lunch. 



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  • Plawann (New Local Success Story): Coconut and purple sweet potato flours used to make this sweet pancake treat about the size of a small muffin-top.  Woman started making them at home during Covid.  Crowd goes wild.  Now 33 franchises in Chiang Mai metro.  Yum sells!
  • Pa Yod Shan (Vegan/Vegeterian): Pizza it ain’t.  But that’s what they call it even though it looks more like a quesadilla.  Make up a new name, it’s worth it.  Fermented tea salad was an unexpected highlight, especially this far down the food bunny hole.


It’s after this stop that Moui explains how shifting food culture has indelibly changed architecture.  The side effect of the evolution in work from agriculture, where you socialized while you toiled, to industry, where socialization during the day is discouraged, caused the population to gather for meals instead of making them at home.  Combined with the wide availability of high quality, inexpensive food choices, essentially, “nobody cooks at home any more.”  As the main gathering places went from homes to restaurants, the kitchens themselves went from the largest, busiest room in the house to the smallest and cleanest.  It’s common that a modern kitchen in Chiang Mai only has a tiny refrigerator and microwave, and no stove or oven at all.

  • Siriwattana Market (Where We Shop Every Day):  As we hop out at this last destination, Moui announces that, after five full meals, “we’re going on a picnic!”  We can barely keep up with her as she hits her favorite stalls and grabs Chiang Mai sausage, green chili dip, peanut dumplings steamed on a cloth over a metal pot, sticky rice steamed in a foot ling hunk of bamboo, pork rinds, deep red roselle juice and bright pink ruby water chestnuts.  And bugs… a big ol’ scoop of black crickets, brown crickets and silkworms.  We wander over to an empty stall where our intrepid leader turns her sack of groceries into an impromptu multi course meal, appetizers through dessert.  If this stop had been the entire tour it would have been worth it.





That Mandy hung through every course at every stop (and yes dear readers, that includes the insects) absolutely amazed me.  The tour was highly recommended to us and surpassed the hype, letting us connect to the regional culture via cuisine.

Deep in the throes of some bizarre food-drunk, we’re dropped off at the starting point and say our goodbyes.  Right across the street is Wat Rajamontean, another of this city’s 1500 temples.  This one features a massive seated-Buddha statue overlooking the Old City.  Its charm is unmistakable and makes this temple outstanding indeed.  We walk along the canal – which formerly served as the gator-rich castle mote, catching the sites along the way. 





Inevitably, the 90F heat gets the better of us.  It’s not an exaggeration to say that every third door on any given street in Chiang Mai is a massage parlor, ranging from very basic to full-blown Beverly Hills spa.  We pick something modest and walk in.  60 minutes, two insanely great massages, $19.28USD total at today’s exchange rate.  We should do this every day!

Hotel, dip in the rooftop infinity pool, nap.  Ahhhhhh, vacation.

The nightly night market in Chiang Mai literally starts outside our hotel door.  Rested, we venture into the melee.  We only saw a small portion of the market last night so we make a few different turns to check out some more.  For some reason that only Buddha understands, we’re a little hungry.  For 200 baht, just under $6.50 USD, you can pick your own whole red tilapia and watch it be salt crusted grilled right in front of you.  Add a whole squid and some chiang da, local, seasonal greens, and coconut ice cream, and a world class dinner for 2 costs less than I typically pay for a martini.








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